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Have your looks gone down the drain?

I was watching, Mike and Juliet this morning, and there was a guest that, had a toddler, she was married and she had let her looks go out the door. Between being busy with, her toddler and, her work, as a police dispatcher, she didn’t have the time, to tend to herself. The woman said “she was disgusted when she looked in the mirror“.  Along with her looks going out the window, so had her love life with her husband. This got me thinking! I know as a mother, that it is hard to keep yourself looking hot, when you are trying to run a household, and especially also working.

Remember how it was when you were dating, up until you got married? Us woman are on top of our game during these times, dressing up, wearing makeup, looking sexy for our man. And our love lives were off the chart right! After, a while kids come along, and our lives just kind of take a turn. We let ourselves go, and at the same time unintentionally leave our husbands thinking ” man I miss it when she dressed up”. Of course our men don’t really tell us that but it’s what is going through their heads!

While I was watching Mike and Juliet, I noticed when the guest came out after her makeover, her husband was looking at her like he wanted to take her in his arms right then and there! It was like there was a sparkle in his eye, and he was totally checking her out. After seeing that I thought to myself, gosh I want my husband to look at me like that again, and I bet all the women out there who have let their self go, are wanting their man to look at them like that too. Somehow us women need to make that time to tend to our own bodies, and our appearances as well as our kids. It’s not fair to leave our husbands hanging like that, at least I don’t think it is. I mean if my husband let himself go I don’t think I would like it. I would still love him, of course but I would miss looking at him, and thinking how extremely sexy he is.

So I am calling all moms. Come on, and lets get our sexy back! Plan a night, surprise your man and dress up, wear makeup, get your hair done, throw on some sexy underwear, and bra and take your man out somewhere romantic. I bet he will be mesmerized! This is a perfect time of the year, being that it has just started, to even make it a New Years resolution, to make time each day to make ourselves look good too. Our self esteem depends on us keeping ourselves as important as our kids and husbands. If we let our self go, so will our self esteem, and our confidence. And we have to admit, a confident women, with good self esteem is attractive in itself.  So as Justin Timberlake would say, Bring your sexy back!

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